I suppose cause the yandere thing (although I can't say I remember playing any titles with rape, that's def not my thing, it's mostly limbs getting cut off, and if my legs are still in place, do you even love me?) is very theatrical one, creeps rarely come in form of a suddenly obsessed stranger lurking in the dark corners. But they do come as a very enthusiastic about your company colleague, who tries to forces himself into managing your work, who follows you on every lunch break and insists on accompanying you on your way home and on giving you gifts you don't accept. They do come as male friends who decided that since you are playing games together, you def want to date him, and if you say no, that's because he hasn't courted you enough yet. Those are very real and very scary. And while dudes with chains do happen, it's still mostly a scarecrow, this perfect criminal, who creates perfect victims. Now stop complaining about your colleague and get along with him, I don't need any problems here.