I think this is why most other authors have trouble speaking to you. Attacking anyone's intelligence or appearance instead of actually making any points is seen as unintelligent. Saying slurs randomly disrupts the flow of a conversation. Someone expressing their discomfort about you saying a word is the whole reason why you quit another site, you're unable to take criticism when it comes to boundaries. Just as you say "let them express their opinions", I am also allowed to share mine. As for no one getting offended that is a lie.
When I said let them express their opinions, I was literally talking about others, but you as well, as can be seen from the last part of that whole message that you pointed out.
Also, no, no one has trouble talking to me, only mental people have trouble doing that. Because for instance, where have I attacked anyone's appearance? Or are we just bullshitting on the spot now? And also, I'm always making points, unlike you. You're just saying **** to say it, while I back up everything I say, and if I'm not certain about something? Then I say that it's my opinion, which may or may not be.
But when one takes into consideration that you think that a word retard is a slur, I just don't see how anyone can ever actually talk to you, because people who think that don't listen, ever.
Oh, and by the way, that is not why I quit Tumblr. Though I must say, it is cute that you think that just because you're a friend from their inner circlers somehow makes you all knowing, and by default you know my reasoning. So sorry to break it to you, but your assumption is quite false.
Also, I am able to take criticism. I'm unable to take bullshit, simple. You tell me not to use it, I ask why, you say it's a slur, I say it's not, and then you move along. Don't try to change my view simply based on your vibes, just how I won't try to actively change your views on anything. Those aren't boundaries, that's language policing and censorship over freedom of speech, which is something that I thought you were all for? But nah, that's just one of many shields people who think like you use
And on the final note, if one gets offended or doesn't get offended is their problem, not mine. I can't be held responsible for how someone else feels.
I'm responsible for how I talk, how I act, how I carry myself, and how and what I think. That's about it. How others feel about that is their problem, and considering that normal people have no problems with that, I meeeaaaan
I've already called them out for using slurs, apparently the R one isn't a slur according to them. I am willing to listen to some of their takes, like they're right on certain things, but their attitude towards other authors because they were called out for being a bigot is telling and so I'm taking a lot of that aspect with a bowl of salt.
I'll take being right on certain things
Also, it's not "according to me". I ask anyone single one of you, to go to the oxford dictionary, and look up if it's a slur or not. Because you'll find out real quick that it's, if anything, a medical term. Word retarded would be closer to what you have in mind, according to dictionary, even though that's still not a slur.
And my attitude towards other writers is because they have back stabbed me, not because they decided to threw a bunch of bullshit titles my way. Calling me a bigot means as little as calling me literally anything else
Though honestly, I am not even sure why I'm entertaining any of this anymore
instead of actually making any points is seen as unintelligent.
Also just pointing this out to you again, in case you want to continue your discussion with me. Unlike you, I don't completely limit my account here to only me, so you can actually send me messages and not clog the thread with unrelated stuff